Guess wat, tumblr.
People have been writing “problematic” relationships since before Jesus learned to wipe his own ass.
So much of renaissance literature focuses on creepy incest pairings, fucked up assholes trying to claim a young girl’s virginity, women exchanging sexual favors for agency. One notable example: when John Ford published ‘Tis Pity She’s a Whore, the literature world reacted as though the play would tear the very moral fibers of society apart. He was, quite literally, called the trash man, and it was decided that the play would bring about the end of decent society.
Guess wat.
It didn’t.
The world went on. Literally no one walked away after reading Ford’s play and thought, “Well, that’s that. Better go impregnate my sister and kill anyone who gets in our way.” However, people did come away from the play wondering if society was too harsh in its condemnations of what makes a villain. It left people DISCOURSING, if we will, on the merits and levels of evil.
These themes are nothing new. They are not going to absurdly and suddenly “normalize” anything, because they never have. And, even better for our time than in Ford’s, as a society, we have become much more aware of how important it is to teach people about consent, about autonomy and agency, about safety. And it’s important that we keep teaching those lessons. But this does not mean we shun literature that explores anything negative. This does not mean we stop writing dynamics that explore Bad Things™ because, as history shows, it. won’t. destroy. society.
If you don’t enjoy a thing, then don’t read it. Don’t interact with it. Ignore it. If you are disgusted by a thing, don’t engage with it. If it makes you sick, or ill, or makes you clutch your pearls in alarm, do not read the thing. NO ONE IS FORCING YOU TO. And above all else, don’t you dare get on a high horse and try to gain some moral high ground by shaming the people who do read, write, and engage with such dynamics because
Guess wat.
It only encourages them to do it more.
Someone told Shakespeare that his penis puns were too bawdy.
So he went out of his way to add more.
Literature has always contained content that people did not like. There are always going to be ways to critique a work in a valid and rational way. Criticizing those who enjoy those works, and calling them “awful?” Not valid. Not rational. Not helpful. Not smart.
Tag: psa
((since a certain section of role play tumblr needs to learn this again:
Writing ‘taboo’ subjects in fiction doesn’t equate to condoning it irl.
Come on we all play child soldiers who are paid to kill other people for their country we would all be in trouble here.))
Four Bad Text Roleplay Behaviors to Avoid
SHIP WARS: A Simple Guide for Fandom
Q: Should I harass or bully someone over who/what they ship?
A: No.
Q: But they ship the wrong ship!
A: Still no.
Q: Their ship will never be canon! It’s so obvious to anyone
reading/watching/playing.A: I don’t care. The answer is still no.
Q: My ship is canon, and they ship one of the couple with
someone else! It’s like cheating! How about now?A: Nope, not now either.
Q: The ship they ship is unhealthy/abusive/incestuous/icky.
I should definitely harass them about that.A: It’s like you’re not even listening to me. No, no you
should not.Q: But if they ship this about fictional characters, they must
support it in real life!A: No, enjoying reading or writing about something is not
the same as supporting it in real life. Agatha Christie is not a mass murderer,
despite having fictionally killed over 100 people.Q: Well, I guess it’s okay if the person shipping it is
doing so to deal with abuse or trauma of their own. But only then! Everyone else is fair game.A: And how, pray tell, do you plan to enforce this arbitrary
rule? You’re planning to compel people
to show their victim bone fides to
you, a complete stranger? So that you can pass judgement on whether their
trauma was “real enough” or if they are “victim enough” to warrant shipping
something you disapprove of? Not only is that absurd, it’s extremely offensive and damaging to the very people you’re purporting to help.
You don’t get to be the arbiter of someone else’s life experiences, period.
Some people use fandom as a coping mechanism, yes, and that is 100% their
business. Some people ship unhealthy/abusive ships for completely benign
reasons, up to and including “because they look pretty together” and that is perfectly valid. You don’t get a
free pass to harass someone in the name of great justice here.Q: Fuck you, I’m going to harass someone anyway. I might
even make a blog about it!A: Well, you’re an asshole then. I hope you step on a lego.
Step on a lego is now totally the modern social curse.
Hey, so, anyway, just because you like to read/write about unhealthy dynamics doesn’t mean you support abuse. It just means you like to read/write about unhealthy dynamics.
It’s okay to have fictional characters do problematic stuff. Really, it is. Fictional characters are there to tell a story; not to be perfect paragons of virtue.
“Yeah!” some people will say. “It’s fine as long as you show that it’s problematic!”
And I’ll say: No. You don’t need to always do that either. We can’t expect writers to point out every moral misstep a character makes.
It’s okay to have characters do something problematic, and it’s okay to assume that the readers can see why it’s problematic on their own.
I don’t know where this recent idea came from that fiction has to be perfectly healthy anyway. Fiction is not inherently healthy and never has been, its not real, its for exploration and imagination. Fiction is separate from reality and that is why we like it. What you write about is not what you condone, Stephen King is not serial killer for writing about murder. People are not being “abuse apologists” for shipping two characters in a less than healthy way.
I’m sick of this new trend.
You don’t have to like a ship but you want to know what is actually hurting people? What is not promoting healthy behavior? Harassing shippers, telling them they’re disgusting over fiction, that kind of shining behavior antis exhibit.
i’m still burned on this RP writing stuff.
things that are okay: using ‘said’ as a dialog tag. using ‘ask’ as a dialog tag. there’s beauty in plain, unobstructed english. your writing doesn’t need to be flowery in order to be elegant – elegance can rise from the construction of a sentence and everything leading into and following that sentence. i find that smaller words often have more of an impact on writing. you can make a sentence feel like a punch. you can make a sentence’s weight feel like it’s slowly sinking into your bones.
i always think of that c.s. lewis quote: “don’t use words too big for the subject. don’t say ‘infinitely’ when you mean ‘very’; otherwise you’ll have no word left when you want to talk about something really infinite.”
MY MUSE IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT
Please keep in mind that, however hard my muse may argue something or however confidently they make a statement, they can be wrong. It’s my muse’s opinion, and my muse talking, and their perception is skewed.
Do not feel like everything out of my character’s mouth is the truth, or that I’m godmodding.
I’m not sure if Anti’s can comprehend this, but if you happen to call people “delusional”, claim they have mental issues, are bad people, or whine like little bitches when someone likes a show, characters, or a ship you don’t like, you don’t have the “Moral High Ground” and are massive cunts.



