That sounds liken line STRAIGHT from a villain.
[[ It’s a classic tactic to put the blame on the person who was used, instead of the abuser.
“Well you didn’t say you were abused, so it wasn’t real.” It puts the responsibility on them to have known better, avoided it, put a stop to it, etc. The world doesn’t work that way. Itachi was 13, scared of war, suffering from PTSD and grieving the loss of his best friend and still working under the man who killed him. He felt powerless and only wanted to avoid mass fighting and protect his little brother. He was played, yet these people have the nerve to come after him as if he was solely responsible for the massacre. ]]